According to His Will

And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:
1 John 5:14

It's not just about asking God to do things for us, it's about asking according to His will. How can we know His will if we don't have a close relationship with Him.
His Word has been given as a guideline to help us know more about Him and His will for our lives.

Also, we need to speak more in an unknown tongue, cos The Holy Spirit helps us to pray to God according to His will and not our own selfish desires.
If we feed the spirit and not flesh, we decrease as He increases, His will, desires n ways become ours, we find that it's easy to ask Him n receive cos we are asking exactly what He has in mind.

Ask according to His Will and He'll NeVeR disappoint!